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Post by alexiarevan on Jun 7, 2017 9:47:42 GMT
Hum..
So.....wanted to let you guys know some stuff .
My roomate about 4 years ago or so..had a breast cancer . She had chimio and the cancer was gone . But....well..it came back and this one is more agressive then the previous ones . More then that , it's a cancer you don't stay alive no matter what . All they can do is slow it down .
So for a year or so..she had her treatement and honestly , it didnt work .
About a week ago , her health took for the worst when her arm stoppped moving and she kept coughing her lungs . The cancer she has spread from her lungs to her right side completely , hence the arm that cant move .
So..I called the ambulance . And well..that is it . Oh she aint dead yet , but she aint coming out from there . If they can slow it down , then they be putting her in a home (she is 64) where she can have a nurse help and everything .
which bring me to.....the fact that I cant afford this place on my own anymore . So I'm moving from here to...hell..I have no idea . everything cost too much for me . I have a friend who gonna help me find a place so I dont end up in the street and move me .
She is coming the 15th of July and I must be gone...by the 1st august .
So...there you have it . Even if by miracle I can find a place I can afford...I wont be able to afford a phone and the internet on my own . Hence why..I rather say Goodbye right away . I dont know if I be back once I find a new place .
if I get a miracle or two..maybe I be back . But..I wouldnt hold my breath..
so..Thanx for the laugh , for the chit chat . It was great knowing you all! Keep on Gaming and Smooching!
See ya all !
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Post by GroundSquirrel on Jun 7, 2017 14:25:18 GMT
Cancer is such a crap disease Sorry to read that things took a worse turn for your roommate and the way this impacts you as well. I really hope you manage to find an affordable place to live and I hope you will be able to come back and post here. ***hug***
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Post by alexiarevan on Jun 7, 2017 15:56:50 GMT
**hug back** tell me about it . Its an agressive cancer that when the med actually work , you get like 2 years max of living . In her case , she doesn't think she make it to chrismas .
As for me , I hope so . But I don't know . every place I looked is way too pricey for me . Then you have places that dont want Smoker , or cat . And I'm not putting the 2 cats to sleep...for my conveniance . I rather put ME to sleep then do that .
Wish me luck! cose I need it like hell!
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Post by alexiarevan on Jul 18, 2017 21:49:56 GMT
UPDATE!! UPDATE!!! I FOUND A NEW APPARTEMENT!! OMG! its gorgeous , its cheap and its include The cable and the z'INTERNET!!! Pray that tomorrow , I seal the deal!! and I have 2 bathrooms ! and its spacious... the downside..its in middle of nowhere LOL and I'm on foot LOL But I suck it up . I wont find anything this good So tomorrow..at 1PM canadian Québec Time..I be there and hopefully , I sign the appartement and then pack and leave WOOT! When I settle down...I get ya guys pictures of the new places ! I'm near a lake! its gorgeous
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Post by GroundSquirrel on Jul 19, 2017 17:25:01 GMT
That sounds really awesome! I'm keeping my fingers crossed
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Post by alexiarevan on Jul 19, 2017 23:17:54 GMT
I HAVE A NEW APPARTEMENT!!! And its minnnnnnne... now , all I have to do is paaaack and leaaaaaaave ! The new landlore I have is very very sweet , we clicked right away wich..is the 1st time in my life to happen . I'm used to racist landlores..or landlores that look constipated . I took alot of pictures with my friends camera , alas..I dont have them yet on my pc . But I promise..once we settle down...I'm gonna show ya the place Its in the middle of nowhere , a tiny village . It has a fire departement ,a post office , a bank..a market....a restaurant , a flower shop..and a hair dresser..and that is it . Oh and a hospital lol... But..there is no bus..or any other way to travel around if ya dont have a car . Its near a big lake..and a marina..so ya can go down there (if ya have money)..rent a boat..and even fish . The lake has ducks lol I have a view of the lake but not much , I have lot of trees in the way . But ya can walk down there easely . And the place has alot of air and wind around..wich is something I have been dying for , my old appartement has a sucky locations . The heat was unbearable..and I didnt have A*C. The appartement is on the 1st floor . I have only 3 neighbord . One is above me , its the landlore brother and he only come there during the week end . The next door is an empty appartement . And the below is a guy who live with a dog . I have 2 bathroom , one has a shower . I have a room with a window . I have a living room and it also has the washing and dryer machines . I have a large kitchen with a big table with 4 chairs LOL I'm thinking of getting ride of it..cose..I eat in front of my pc . The cats gonna go nuts over the space..now they can each have their own space without fighting . we start moving tomorrow.....woot!
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Post by GroundSquirrel on Jul 20, 2017 11:46:13 GMT
Great that you got the apartment It sounds like a really nice place and peaceful and quiet too. Maybe getting a bike at some point would be convenient too for getting around? Hope the cats won't get too stressed out from the moving. Looking forward to seeing some pictures
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Post by alexiarevan on Jul 21, 2017 0:08:42 GMT
yeah , I don't think so lol
I mean about the bike . I tried learning how to use a bycicle..and all I end up doing is ram into a parked car over and over . End up with bruises all over .
I just...I just think if I did get a bike..I probably will drive right into the lake . And then Sink like the Titanic lol
It really is . Few neighbord , and the street is very quiet . I have 4 days to make my move to the new place..cose my friend time is almost up .
So wish me luck lol I'm getting a truck tomorrow..and hopefully we gonna do it in 2 days .
As soon as I settle down , I send ya the pictures...promise!
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Post by GroundSquirrel on Jul 21, 2017 17:34:20 GMT
Oh dear Must not forget about using the brakes! And I guess learning on one of these gives an advantage At least that's how I learned when I was little. Hope everything's going to run smoothly
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Post by alexiarevan on Jul 22, 2017 23:31:02 GMT
well..I can tell you this : I'm packed and gone . At least my stuff are in my new appartement! Tonight I'm sleeping here..and tomorrow..we make a sweep of this place..and then..I'm officially going to go back to my new place . Tomorrow..we move the kitties..and my pc ! And my friend will be leaving after tomorrow super early . So man..my moving is pretty much done . wouldnt be here at all..if my friend didnt come to the rescue . I owe her big . I,m gonna visit roomate for one last time , (btw her cancer , the new medication is working wonder! its killed 50% of it! they said..at this rate if she keep reacting well to the treatement...there is a chance in the futur she be released , so YAY!) . I also..have a cell phone now LOL never had one..but...we'll see how that thing goes .
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Post by GroundSquirrel on Jul 23, 2017 17:15:42 GMT
I'm glad that your friend has been such a big help. Hopefully you'll be sleeping well in your new apartment Also glad that things seem to go a bit better for your roommate.
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